Author Archives: Maddox

These 3 Deadly Seduction Sins

I call these the “deadly seduction sins”, and if you ever had a girl you though liked you go ICE COLD and lose interest, or if the girls you fall for never seem to like you back, you’re probably making at least one of these mistakes. Seduction Sin #1: – Letting Her Know How You Feel Too Soon Sure it feels good to release all those bottled up feelings and blurt out “I love you” or tell her how special she is. And man, if Hollywood doesn’t […]

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Engineering Love

In my previous article I talked about how you don’t get a woman to fall in love with you by things you say, Because love actually happens when she’s away from you, when she can’t stop thinking about you, when she finds herself repeating your name in her mind over and over again, And although she doesn’t quite understand why, she wants to see you so bad it HURTS That’s love. And its something you can actually “engineer.” The “Emotion Game” Love is what I call an […]

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Avoid THESE Attraction Killers

I grew up watching John Cusak movies. I really wanted to believe that standing outside some girl’s window with a boom box blasting a love song was the key to her heart. Unfortunately, it’s not. And even though logically most of us know this, years of “pop song programming” seem to kick in every time we like a girl and lead us to make some very damaging mistakes. Here are 3 of the most toxic killers of attraction: 1. Sending Her Flowers at Work This move REAKS […]

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8 Common Behaviours that make You Look Needy

There’s not a day that goes by when a guy doesn’t email us asking for advice on a specific girl confused as to why he’s not “getting physical” with her even though she seems to like him, The truth is most guys confuse “boyfriend behavior” with “get her into bed” behavior. And if you start displaying “boyfriend behavior” BEFORE you’ve gotten her into bed, you come across as needy and TRY HARD, (and will NEVER sleep with her) Here are some examples of “boyfriend behavior” that if […]

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4 Attraction Building Benefits of the Pull Back

Did you know there is one simple “move” that will boost the attraction of level of any girl you’re dating? This one move (that takes almost no skill to pull off) taps more “psychological” attraction trigger points then just about anything else you can do. This one move is called “The Pull Back.” And its super effective. Calling (a little) less or not calling for a couple of days at a time. Wanting to see her (a little) less than you did in the beginning. Being (a […]

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3 Reasons a Girl will Go Cold

I was working with one of my private coaching clients, Steve (not his real name. And Steve has run into a dilemma that a lot of guys face when they finally get good at attracting women. They have trouble keeping the ones they really want. Steve told me a story of how he had recently met a girl through a mutual friend, “She was hot, smart, and totally into me, We were talking almost every day.” he explained to me. Then then she went cold. “All the […]

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2 Techniques to Gain the Upper Hand with a Girl

I bet you didn’t know this, Every time a guy and a girl start talking, one person tries harder, and the person who tries harder holds less power. Once she recognizes that she has the power, game over, you lose, collect your consolation prize and go home. This why you’ve got to immediately establish that you have the upperhand, Here’s one of my favorite “power plays” early on, When you’re out at a bar or restaurant, say, “what do you want to drink?” Then order her something […]

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#1 Reason She Wont Hook Up with You

Let me ask you this: Have you ever went to the dealership to buy a car, saw a car you really wanted, and still walked off the lot without purchasing anything? Why didn’t you buy? You didn’t buy for the same reason a girl doesn’t hook up with you even if she kind of wants to. She’s afraid of making a mistake. She’s afraid of buying a LEMON. Its NOT lack of desire that prevents you from buying the car, What prevents you from buying it is: […]

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Passing a Woman’s Tests

In the article below, we wanted to discuss one of the most critical elements to seducing that one girl you really want- your emotions. Unfortunately, most guys emotions DO NOT act in their best interest when it comes to getting a girl (especially when you really like her.) You’re emotions cause all kinds of mischief like making you act insecure, needy, clingy, and predictable – All things that MURDER attraction. The reality is that when these “emotions” take over – its like it disengages your logical brain. […]

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What Makes a Girl Fall in Love

Every day I get an email similar to this: “There is this girl I’m talking to. I really want her to be my girlfriend. What can I say to her?” Here is my answer: Nothing you can “say” will make her fall in love with you. In fact, you will usually “blow it” if you attempt to let a girl know how you feel (especially if it’s early on.) Here’s the problem most guys run into – Once they like a girl they think they need to […]

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