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3 Reasons a Girl will Go Cold

I was working with one of my private coaching clients, Steve (not his real name. And Steve has run into a dilemma that a lot of guys face when they finally get good at attracting women. They have trouble keeping the ones they really want. Steve told me a story of how he had recently met a girl through a mutual friend, “She was hot, smart, and totally into me, We were talking almost every day.” he explained to me. Then then she went cold. “All the […]

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2 Techniques to Gain the Upper Hand with a Girl

I bet you didn’t know this, Every time a guy and a girl start talking, one person tries harder, and the person who tries harder holds less power. Once she recognizes that she has the power, game over, you lose, collect your consolation prize and go home. This why you’ve got to immediately establish that you have the upperhand, Here’s one of my favorite “power plays” early on, When you’re out at a bar or restaurant, say, “what do you want to drink?” Then order her something […]

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What Makes a Girl Fall in Love

Every day I get an email similar to this: “There is this girl I’m talking to. I really want her to be my girlfriend. What can I say to her?” Here is my answer: Nothing you can “say” will make her fall in love with you. In fact, you will usually “blow it” if you attempt to let a girl know how you feel (especially if it’s early on.) Here’s the problem most guys run into – Once they like a girl they think they need to […]

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